In the SelfX world of conversation, you can talk to others about their issues, read stuff about how to think about the business of being a person, or talk to groups of people who all have similar issues. You can get rated on your saintliness. You can get rated on your competence. Of course, it’s other people doing the rating, so ymmv.
Everything you say here cannot be traced to you, by design.
We will use the things said here to help others with the game.
Here’s the thing: Everyone is doing their best, but most people are mediocre or bad at talking about emotional stuff.
Here, we recognize this. We recognize that it would be better if we just had another person we could talk to.
You can also read stuff about being a person by famous psychologists, wise people, philosophers, and other people who have dealt with these problems already.
You might be thinking: no one could possibly know what it’s like to be me.
But here’s the thing: there are 7 billion or so humans. There’s probably someone almost exactly like you. Maybe you’ll encounter them? Maybe you wouldn’t want to.
Find out here.